Since I have been doing the RV bit for about 30 years, I thought I would pass on some hard-earned experience.
I started out by sleeping in the back of my pickup, graduated to trailers, and later to various types and sizes of motor homes. Personally, I prefer a motor home. I find it easier to load, drive, back up, and maintain than a trailer, but many would disagree with me. If you want to get a good argument going at a show or campground, just ask exhibitors for opinions about motor homes versus trailers.
But one thing always applies, no matter which rig you choose. Don't overload! Just because you now have a closet, you still don't need six outfits for a two-show weekend. Nor do you need every tool you own. I've gotten along just fine with a cell phone (to call for help!), a pair of pliers, and a screwdriver. You have the kitchen sink. Not everything else is necessary.
Be particularly careful about weight when towing. Just because the salesman says you can tow that behemoth with your present truck, don't believe him. Get the specs on the rig and go underweight. I have been under-powered and over-trailered in a couple situations: My most recent experience resulted in a damaged truck.
Motor homes can also be overloaded. With gas prices rising, keeping your rig properly cared for and correctly loaded is not only a saftey issue, it's common senese!
Whichever rig you choose, good roadside insurance is critical. I have had my share of flat tires, kaput starters, whistling temperature gauges, and so on.
The best tool I carry is my cell phone and emergency service card. I have found tow- truck drivers to be most helpful and really, really nice. They can be much more efficient if you can give them good information about your rig and your situation.
Women traveling alone (which many of us are) should be careful. I plan my routes, stay on the main roads, and always go into nicer campgrounds at night. Even though I travel with large dogs, I am cautious. Not afraid. Just cautious. I keep my fuel gauge on the top half so I can choose where and when I fill up, and I don't travel after dark except in an emergency. I may get home a day later, but I get there, right-side up and in one piece.
A few weeks ago, I was informed by one elderly gentleman that women who RV alone are entirely too independent, and by another that I was brave and resourceful. Neither one, really; I just like to show my dogs in relative comfort, and camping on the grounds provides that.
RV'ing means that we can travel in comfort and our dogs have a familiar couch to sleep on . It also provides wonderful social contact. Long summer evenings, walking dogs, barbeques, and lots of camaraderie make for special times and great memories.
Regretfully, I have decided not to replaice my triler. I have all kinds of good reasons. Hopefully they will last past the spring RV shows.
I wish you all safe traveling, funny stories to tell around the campgrounds - and can I come join you and reminesce?